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Tuesday, October 19, 2010

My weekend

My weekend started out promising, I called him after I took the girls to the retreat and he was on his way to get a haircut.  We both arrived home around the same time and he wanted to go out to dinner.  We got in the car and he asked me where I wanted to go eat.  Of course I came back with the usual answer "it doesn't matter to me", but he said for me to pick because it was my evening.  Awe how sweet ... so I picked Olive Garden.  I LOVE OLIVE GARDEN!!!  We rode to the restaurant and he reached out for my hand, I love it that we do that again, and told me "you do know I wasn't playing earlier, I'm going to bust your ass later for the attitude you've have over the last couple of days".  "What attitude?" I asked as if I didn't know.  And he looked at me and told me if I can HONESTLY sit there and tell him that I didn't think I've had and attitude begging to be spanked then he would let it go.  Oh I hate it when he does that.  I have had an attitude.  I have needed a spanking for a long long time and it seems as though we never have a moment alone anymore.  If I go any length of time without spanking play I get all edgy, I can't explain it but I know you know what I mean.    Last school year our girls had evening activities that had them BOTH away from the house two evening a week at the same time, but now their evening activities are on different nights so one of them is always home.  I was used to getting "attention" at least one of those two days each week and no it is down to none.  By the time they are both tucked into bed at night we are so tired we just go to sleep. 

We went to dinner and had a wonderful time, we laughed and talked and it felt really good to just be together and be us.  Throughout dinner small spanking references were made, and those moments are absolutely fabulous for me, I feel all warm inside and it those secret moments that we share together that no one else knows  about.

So after dinner we drove home and fell asleep.  Yes you read that correctly we fell asleep.  All the talk all the references made to what was going to happen to my poor bottom when we got home and we both fell asleep!  I couldn't believe it!  When I got up the next morning he was already awake and had made us a pot of coffee and was watching TV.  I was so mad at myself, I was mad at him, I was mad at the whole world.  My mind had played out how our night was going to go it was going to be filled with spanking and sex and what happened ...... we fell asleep.  I walking into the living room and plopped down on the couch to watch TV and he turned around and asked me what was wrong.  Seriously, how in the world could he not know what was wrong.  I was disappointed that things didn't go the way I wanted.  So I said what I always say when I am mad.  NOTHING IS WRONG!  He walked over to me and took my hand and pulled me off the couch and said "there it is there is the attitude I was talking about, we are going to adjust that attitude right now. "  I got the spanking or should I say paddling I had waited weeks for.  My attitude is much much better and all is happy in the house now. 

So as for the weekend .... there were some up and there were some downs but all in all i have to say it was great!!!!!

3 comments:

  1. Great to see you got the spanking you want. Saw your blot on Bonnie's site and I enjoyed it and will be back.

    FD

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  2. Hi Rebekah, I've read your first few posts and your journey sounds similar to mine. I can relate here to the "falling asleep".It happens here too, unfortunately :-( Life + Kids is exhausting. I'm glad your husband provided the reassurance that you needed.
    Welcome to blogging too! FYI, I've added to you my blogroll. :-)
    -Elysia (Blissful Dwelling Place)

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  3. Florida Dom ... thanks for stopping by and reading my blog I am glad you enjoyed it and I look forward to hearing more from you.

    Elysia, Your has helped me so much. When I began reading blogs about ttwd I read your blog and became a fan immediately. I am flattered that you have added me to your blogroll. Thanks a million! I look forward to exchanging thoughts and ideas with you.

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